Fail? What does that mean? Hmmm….
Dude, have you ever heard of “YOU FAIL!! HAHAHAHAHA”
Well, if you did, then cheer up, because I am here to rescue you.
One sunny morning, Richard, a 10-year-old boy, went outside his house door to enjoy the sunlight. Cars after cars keep passing by until…Suddenly, a girl passed by his door. From where he was standing, the sun shines into the girl’s hair, eyes, and face, which makes him especially attracted to this girl. She looked at him and smile, and the smile lingered within him…
Eyes…what are they? What are they for? Why are they here…. We only know that eyes serve a purpose such as allowing us to see things in life. Even right now. I am using my eyes to type this blog post. And you are using yours to read this blog post. So? So they are important. But, most of us always overuse it. I, myself, have been using my eyes non-stop for a just one whole day, and my eyes just confessed with me.
Once in a while, we all get sad. Preferably and most of the time, we listened to our music. Songs that we like, to brighten up our mood. Some people who are a fan of sad songs like me, we listened to sad songs when we’re sad (obviously), as well as all the other times. And this happened to me several times already. When I was listening to it, I felt like it was written for me. Like seriously, no kidding. As I sit there listening to every words of the lyrics, I understand them all. Every word, every meaning, every feelings that were exerted from it. Then I felt a little comforted. Because somehow, I was thinking to myself, “This person who wrote this song and many other audiences of this songs might have felt the same way, which enable that person to wrote this song.”
“Why can’t you just give up?”, Sarah’s brother asked her sadly and worriedly, as she was sitting down ready to eat breakfast. Sarah has been having a depression over Kyle, the one that she has lost during her field trip with her school. She was sooo obsessed with him that she turned mute. Even now. She disconnected herself from the whole world just because of a teddy bear.
As we all know, arguments usually are the Key that led to the ending of things. However, That is just a Personal Perspective. For me, I see it as a chance to get to know and understand each other better. It gives us a chance to think about where the feelings/cause for a specific argument comes from. It might be bad but it might be good. Everything has its own reason. Though sometimes, you might not agree with their reactions toward that problem entirely, the way they show it. However, you will still be able to understand their perspectives, their feelings, as to why it might happen that way.
Once a tall, angry man dragged his victim to a person’s grave on the street, using a car. “Stop!”- cried the victim on the top of his lung, “Stop! I did not drag my brother beyond thirty minutes.” Upon stopping, the tall man came out of the car and start hitting his victim in the face countless times. He said, “Why did you killed your own brother?! What did he ever do to you?!”
Once upon a time early in the morning, two little boys were running around on the grass chasing each other. They were playing tag. Happiness filled the house. Smiles and laughter were heard throughout the neighborhood. But the family was very poor. On the table were barely any food. Therefore, as the head of the family, the Dad took on his responsibility of protecting and providing food for the family. He head out to find a job. Unfortunately, the job that he got was far, far away from home. So on the next day, the family bid farewell to the Dad, his returning date unknown.
So often, people think that they have the right to laugh at people that got dumped. I mean really? Is it really THAT Funny?? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes and realized how mean You are? Well, most of the time, they don’t. That’s why they think that it’s fine for them to do so. Okay then, let’s take a vote. How many of you think that making fun of someone is fun? Do you? Because I really don’t know. People might say, “Ohhh that is Very Bad!! How could someone even Do That??” Uh huh, yeah sure. People do it ALL the time, except for the exceptions.
Getting dumped is already a tragedy itself, why do people have to make it any more worse than that? Seriously. You are Not going to be “COOLER” because you do that. It just shows that you’re a very heartless and indecent person. I mean making fun of something is a form of art, it makes you happy and brings good times and happiness. BUT, you have to be careful picking the subject that you’re going to make fun of.
As we all know, many bullying problems and cases have been and are being reported or are taking place. As I am sitting here writing this post and as you are sitting here reading this post, many more people are being bullied right at this second, this time, this moment. We do not know how bad it really is because we never really try to get to know how it really like. How it affects the bullied people’ lives. Everyday, victims of the bullying are taking their own lives because they can’t stand the bullying. Now, we might ask “Why don’t they stand up for themselves?” and that “Why do they choose to die instead of standing up for themselves or trying to find a solution rather than death?”. Great questions. Now, ask yourself, “Why don’t we try to help them? Why do we choose to be a bystander instead of giving the victims a hand and become an insider? Why are we so scared to get involved?” After you ask yourself these questions, do you get why those victims are scared and almost none of them are trying to stick up for themselves? Because they are all afraid and scared. They are scared that if they stand up to those who bully them, they will get into more troubles. So they would rather keep it to themselves and not get any help at all. Well, I think the real reason is they just don’t have enough Willpower to Fight and Survive.
“The only things in life you regret, are the risks that you didn’t take.”
Not everyone have the “leader” characteristics where you could be outgoing, friendly, great at working together, nice, everyone likes you, etc. All of the characteristics that leaders usually have, we might have one or two, or maybe even none… (sad, I know 😦 )
But don’t worry, because I will try my best to lead u to the direction of becoming a leader and how to improve your leader skills. 🙂
Here are some of the skills or things you will need to be or become a leader. However, of course there are much more than those that I will be telling you. But let’s go ahead and get started, shall we? Are you ready to bring out that “leader” in You? Let’s find out. 🙂
Step 1. You would need…