There are some ideas out there that have not been published nor born to the world.There are many factors that contribute to this reason. Sometimes, it’s because they have none, they haven’t come up with it, or they do not know how to carry out the message the right way. As for me, that usually are the reasons. I currently have some ideas or messages that I want to throw out there and write about it. Unfortunately, I have no idea how. I want to convey my idea the best way possible. Because sometimes, it only brings out the effect if the way you do it is right. On the other hand, even if your idea or lesson or whatever it is, is the best in the world, but you carry it out wrong, it won’t have an effect.
“Why can’t you just give up?”, Sarah’s brother asked her sadly and worriedly, as she was sitting down ready to eat breakfast. Sarah has been having a depression over Kyle, the one that she has lost during her field trip with her school. She was sooo obsessed with him that she turned mute. Even now. She disconnected herself from the whole world just because of a teddy bear.
As we all know, arguments usually are the Key that led to the ending of things. However, That is just a Personal Perspective. For me, I see it as a chance to get to know and understand each other better. It gives us a chance to think about where the feelings/cause for a specific argument comes from. It might be bad but it might be good. Everything has its own reason. Though sometimes, you might not agree with their reactions toward that problem entirely, the way they show it. However, you will still be able to understand their perspectives, their feelings, as to why it might happen that way.
Once a tall, angry man dragged his victim to a person’s grave on the street, using a car. “Stop!”- cried the victim on the top of his lung, “Stop! I did not drag my brother beyond thirty minutes.” Upon stopping, the tall man came out of the car and start hitting his victim in the face countless times. He said, “Why did you killed your own brother?! What did he ever do to you?!”
Once upon a time early in the morning, two little boys were running around on the grass chasing each other. They were playing tag. Happiness filled the house. Smiles and laughter were heard throughout the neighborhood. But the family was very poor. On the table were barely any food. Therefore, as the head of the family, the Dad took on his responsibility of protecting and providing food for the family. He head out to find a job. Unfortunately, the job that he got was far, far away from home. So on the next day, the family bid farewell to the Dad, his returning date unknown.
So often, people think that they have the right to laugh at people that got dumped. I mean really? Is it really THAT Funny?? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes and realized how mean You are? Well, most of the time, they don’t. That’s why they think that it’s fine for them to do so. Okay then, let’s take a vote. How many of you think that making fun of someone is fun? Do you? Because I really don’t know. People might say, “Ohhh that is Very Bad!! How could someone even Do That??” Uh huh, yeah sure. People do it ALL the time, except for the exceptions.
Getting dumped is already a tragedy itself, why do people have to make it any more worse than that? Seriously. You are Not going to be “COOLER” because you do that. It just shows that you’re a very heartless and indecent person. I mean making fun of something is a form of art, it makes you happy and brings good times and happiness. BUT, you have to be careful picking the subject that you’re going to make fun of.
As we all know, many bullying problems and cases have been and are being reported or are taking place. As I am sitting here writing this post and as you are sitting here reading this post, many more people are being bullied right at this second, this time, this moment. We do not know how bad it really is because we never really try to get to know how it really like. How it affects the bullied people’ lives. Everyday, victims of the bullying are taking their own lives because they can’t stand the bullying. Now, we might ask “Why don’t they stand up for themselves?” and that “Why do they choose to die instead of standing up for themselves or trying to find a solution rather than death?”. Great questions. Now, ask yourself, “Why don’t we try to help them? Why do we choose to be a bystander instead of giving the victims a hand and become an insider? Why are we so scared to get involved?” After you ask yourself these questions, do you get why those victims are scared and almost none of them are trying to stick up for themselves? Because they are all afraid and scared. They are scared that if they stand up to those who bully them, they will get into more troubles. So they would rather keep it to themselves and not get any help at all. Well, I think the real reason is they just don’t have enough Willpower to Fight and Survive.
“The only things in life you regret, are the risks that you didn’t take.”
Not everyone have the “leader” characteristics where you could be outgoing, friendly, great at working together, nice, everyone likes you, etc. All of the characteristics that leaders usually have, we might have one or two, or maybe even none… (sad, I know 😦 )
But don’t worry, because I will try my best to lead u to the direction of becoming a leader and how to improve your leader skills. 🙂
Here are some of the skills or things you will need to be or become a leader. However, of course there are much more than those that I will be telling you. But let’s go ahead and get started, shall we? Are you ready to bring out that “leader” in You? Let’s find out. 🙂
Step 1. You would need…
Hey hey, are you sure I’m talking about this one? Nope, you’re wrong. I’m talking more about the deeper stuff man. And that stuff comes from our own Self. As we all know, there’s something called the Angel (the Beauty) and the Devil (the Beast).
Those two comes from our own Self. We make decisions everyday based on those two small characters on our left and right shoulders. Like the title, one is good like an angel and the other is bad like a devil. Every time we make a decision, those two will fight inside of us and whoever wins, we’re going to have our answer from there.
Gossipers be like:
Gossip-ee be like:
As a human being, we always judge each other on how we are dressed, how we look. Basically, judgement is made based on the things that are externally shown. Like a saying, “Don’t judge a book based on its cover,” we never know if the contents are good until we read it and get to know it. But, most of the time, we only look at the cover and that’s the end of it. We never really get to know that person or that book. That is Not our fault however, because that’s how we were made. Our mind only want to know or look further into something when that thing sounds interesting to us. Otherwise, we ignore them. Just like this title that I put as my blog post title. If you are reading this post, then that means I have succeeded in increasing your curiosity and grasped your interest. Nice, and thank you all for reading this post. 🙂
With that being said, I’m going to start talking about why gossiping is good. So, we all know that there’s always a good side and a bad side to everything. Nothing is perfect, right? Therefore, gossiping also play its role in being a two-sided, imperfect creation of our nature. Gossiping has a negative connotation to it already when the word is being spoken. But, have you ever think about the reasons behind why people gossip? Probably not, right? Don’t worry, me neither. Like everyone else out there in this world, whenever I hear the word or think of the word “gossiping,” I think of it as a bad thing. But, just minutes ago before I started to write about this blog, my thinking about the word “gossiping” changed thanks to my English teacher. He opened up my view and make me want to write about this post.
So first of all, gossiping all started because of something we see and it later became known as rumors. Now, some rumors are good and some are bad. Some are lies but some are the truths. We never know for sure. However, most of the time in high school, we gossip about people who are weird and people who we hate or dislike. Since the “normal” people gossip about “weird” people, doesn’t that make the “weird” people interesting? They stand out and are different from the rest of us, that’s why people talk about them. That could be a good thing don’t you think?