As we all know, arguments usually are the Key that led to the ending of things. However, That is just a Personal Perspective. For me, I see it as a chance to get to know and understand each other better. It gives us a chance to think about where the feelings/cause for a specific argument comes from. It might be bad but it might be good. Everything has its own reason. Though sometimes, you might not agree with their reactions toward that problem entirely, the way they show it. However, you will still be able to understand their perspectives, their feelings, as to why it might happen that way.
Therefore, an argument is not totally and entirely bad. However, when you tell another person about the reason why you are being angry, then that is a WHOLE different story. Now, let me ask you a question. Have you ever or know someone who tells a story that is 100% truth? Rarely. Because why? Because our human nature such as pride won’t allow us to do that. Who would want to say something about themselves that will make them look bad? Mostly and possibly No One. The story-teller will always leave out some (important) things that are related to the story but are not good for them. I mean that’s understandable.
For example, this person is reciting something that had happened to them. And you might be giving comments such as “Ohh, that’s very bad. That person is a jerk…..” blah blah blah. BUT, you did Not even listened to the whole story yet. You’ve only listened to a one-sided story and you are already judging the one who you got told about without even knowing the whole truth? Seriously, you have to think about or at least Know that this is just one-sided. Keep that information in your head, at all times even. The story might not be 100% truth. The story-teller might be twisting it this way and that to make themselves look favorable. You never know. So, BE CAREFUL. If you can, try to eliminate the wrong opinions and try to listen to both perspectives or points of view. Only Then, you may judge. Which you’re not supposed to be judging anyways. But if you do, make sure you do it wisely. Don’t accuse someone of being this kind of person without knowing the truth, okay? As a result my readers, keep this advice in mind and Remember it —>
Alright, that’s all from me for today. I’ll see you all soon. Bye bye, love ya all. 🙂 ❤ Merry Christmas and Happy New Year! 😀 12/19/2014