Stay Strong and Be Brave…Facing the Reality

So often, people think that they have the right to laugh at people that got dumped. I mean really? Is it really THAT Funny?? Have you ever put yourself in their shoes and realized how mean You are? Well, most of the time, they don’t. That’s why they think that it’s fine for them to do so. Okay then, let’s take a vote. How many of you think that making fun of someone is fun? Do you? Because I really don’t know. People might say, “Ohhh that is Very Bad!! How could someone even Do That??” Uh huh, yeah sure. People do it ALL the time, except for the exceptions.

Getting dumped is already a tragedy itself, why do people have to make it any more worse than that? Seriously. You are Not going to be “COOLER” because you do that. It just shows that you’re a very heartless and indecent person. I mean making fun of something is a form of art, it makes you happy and brings good times and happiness. BUT, you have to be careful picking the subject that you’re going to make fun of.

“Be careful of your words, it can hurt and scar a person’s heart.”  

But here’s the deal. Okay so you got dumped, so what? It doesn’t matter. Because you should smile instead. Don’t waste your time nor your tears on something so not deserving. You don’t want to regret those times that you have wasted crying and being depressed when you look back, do you?  You’re not gonna be proud. I definitely don’t want that. So what can you do to save you some time? You could set a certain amount of time for your depression period, maybe a week, maybe two weeks, I don’t know, that’s up to you. But don’t allow that period of time to get any longer than a month. Because that is going to lead you to the road of eternal depression. Don’t put yourself in that situation. Come on now man, you gotta be kidding me right? Your life is NOT Over, Stop Exaggerating! -.- Don’t be such a drama queen/king. =..=

And yes, read the quote people. SEE what it says?? GOT IT? LISTEN to what it says and DO THAT Please?  Put it into action yeah? Now, you might think that I’m crazy and maybe even mean because I’m too straightforward in the way that I’m telling you guys how to get over it quickly and stuff. But sometimes, you just need someone who is strict and tells you what to do. Am I right? I’m not gonna sit here and keeps telling you “Ohh, it’s okay, take your sweet time crying sweetie. You’ve been through a lot.” I’m sorry but NO. Let’s save some time for both of us shall we? You think I have time to always be here to comfort you? I mean I will. I love to give advice, to listen to stories, to comfort and be there when you need me. I’ll do that but just not for my nor your whole life. NO ONE would.

And yes, reality sometimes is like a slap in the face. But better than fake honey, don’t you think? I agreed so you should too. 🙂 Hey hey, listen. Just think positive alright? I’m not trying to be mean but I Have to in order to help you guys to realize how unnecessary it is to keep being depressed over something so little. Well, not quite exactly little but you know what I mean. It’s not going to affect you like what, maybe two years from now? Its not gonna matter later so don’t be obsessed about it too much. Like I said or mentioned before, “Don’t cry because it’s over, Smile because it happened.” You know why? Partly because it helps you to not waste your precious time. Save those time for something more spectacular, something more deserving. Each person takes things differently, so don’t worry about it too much. But the main idea is DON’T let anything brings you down and ruins you, Stay Positive and BE Strong! Like Water. It may seems weak but it never stops going on its way to reach its final destination no matter how many obstacles it has to face (the rocks that block it). It just go around and keeps on going. Water is indeed a very strong person and/or possess a very strong personality, IF it IS a person. 😉 You should be like that too or at least start doing that. Alright? Alright then. Hope you all a have a good day and Enjoy your life. I mean it because I care about you, even though I may not even know you. But oh well, “One for All, and All for One”- The Three Musketeers. 😉

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  1. Brandon · February 2, 2015

    Wow, talking about slamming your face into the problem. Even though what you wrote is what everybody wants to happen,it doesn’t as often as it should. Supporting the person and helping them down the path should be your first move. Not yelling at them,that turns to anger and more problems.

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    • nguyen2005260 · February 3, 2015

      Hmm…you’re right. I guess that’s what we should do first. Aid them by telling them. But some people are just too stubborn to listen. So then we might resort back to yelling and make them wake up.


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