Have you ever been in a relationship? Have you ever loved someone? Have you ever got your heart broken? Severely broken? Well, Creon in the book Sophocles once said, “Time eases all things.” (Pg. 79) But does it really work? Or you’re just surrounding yourself with lies to help you escape from the reality? LOVE can make your day. But LOVE can be deceiving. Because LOVE can tear you down…alive.
Any relationships or just Anything comes to an end. Like they always say “Nothing lasts forever.” And so is love. Don’t expect love to be special and can last through time. It could happen, but the chances are very very slim to almost impossible/none. So why waste your time thinking it’s going to work and keep dreaming about it? Instead, wouldn’t it be more efficient if you think about now, where you can take control of the situation? Live in the moment, forget about the past, and look forward to the future.
If we ever EVER have to face something that we’re all scared of, something that broke millions and millions of people’s hearts, the “Break Up,” first of all, just be calm. Don’t rush into any rash decision. Just take a step back, breathe, take it slowly, just take as much time as you need to calm your fast-beating heart down. Then, when you’re ready, start facing it step by step. If you want to ask why that person wants to break up, go ahead. If you don’t want to, then it’s fine too. Because remember, you should know that when you accept to step into and start a relationship, that it’s going to hurt, right? So, that is the most drastic moment that you are facing now. Don’t start to ask all these useless questions like, “Who is he/she?”, “What did I do wrong?”, “Is he/she better than me? Prettier?”. Because guess what, it’s not that there’s something wrong with you or that you did something wrong, but the answer is simply very easy…He/she DOESN’T love you Anymore. I know it’s hard but let’s face it. You are allow to hold back but without love and passion, it will just be a waste of your time, and you will get tired of trying to keep holding them back anyways, sooner or later. So why not end it now? The sooner the better. Like in the picture says, “You never lose by loving. You always lose by holding back.”
Also, what you should do is not hating them after the break up, well at least try not to. Instead, thank them for all the good times, the good memories, and the good moments that they gave you, that you guys spend together, when you guys were still together/a couple. It would help a lot if you’re not obsessed over the break up. Try to cheer yourself up after a couple of days of crying your eyes out. Treat yourself to a nice meal or something, don’t torture it (yourself and your body) with your crying. And as time pass by, your scars and heart will be healed, not fully but will still heal slowly with time. Let time heal them for you, because time is the cure of all heartaches. “Time ease all things”- Creon, from Sophocles.
*When you are in a relationship, don’t expect too much, because “Expectation is the root of all heartache.”- William Shakespeare
This is what we imagined love to be like….. Wow…So Colorful and Beautiful right?
…..Most of the time…..
Look can be deceiving, don’t you think?…….